Why are you moving? Your ‘why’ behind your home move

Why are you moving? Your ‘why’ behind your home move blogpost by AshdownJones estate agents in the Lakes and Dales

Sharing with your estate agent your ‘why’ behind your decision for moving home will almost always help you to move on, because if they know the circumstances behind your decision to sell, and understand your motivations for the change, they will be in a better position to advise you at every step, so you get the results you really want.

For example, if your move is with an urgent deadline in mind – perhaps for a school term start, or a new job – your estate agent needs to know this so they can not only expedite your marketing and get you listed on Rightmove as soon as possible, but also so they can help you pursue the best offers from the buyers most able to exchange and complete quickly.

On the other hand, if you are looking to downsize into a smaller property, and a high value sale price is your top priority, explaining this to your estate agent will mean they can take their time over preparing your marketing materials, such as brochures and photography. Spending longer on creating the right marketing campaign for your property means making sure the quality of your home really shines out in the photography and description, and that your online advert encourages enquiries from the right buyers – namely, the ones that will fall in love with your home, and be prepared to pay your asking price, or close to it.

If your move is discretionary, meaning, you don’t have to move, but you’d like to, and you’re not in a hurry to sell, sharing your plans and hopes with your agent means that they will be able to best guide you on the level of price at which to market your home. It’s a very delicate balance between selecting an asking price that benefits you and accommodates your future plans, whilst not putting off so many buyers that you don’t get any viewings.

Full disclosure

There are some occasions however, when it may be prudent not to share with your estate agent about your underlying motives to move house. Remember that whilst the law states you must at all times be truthful with the information you convey to your estate agent, you may not want to share with them that you believe the house to be haunted, for example. Again, by law he is compelled to share any ‘relevant’ information you give him with potential buyers, and even interested viewers, to provide them with the most comprehensive information about your home before they arrange to view it. There was a case in recent years where an interested buyer from Newcastle travelled to Milton Keynes to view a property, to discover that the driveway shown on the property details was actually shared with the neighbour. This information had not been disclosed on the property details, nor mentioned on the phone when he booked the viewing, and he was understandably upset about the waste of time and money he had incurred on this trip. He made a complaint to the Property Ombudsman, who upheld his complaint, and awarded him not only out-of-pocket expenses, but a compensatory amount for his time and effort too. Altogether an expensive mistake for the estate agent, all because they didn’t disclose relevant information ‘that might put a buyer off a property’ in advance of the viewing.

Hard to leave

It’s especially hard to leave a home that you’ve lived a long life in; a house full of memories can be a wrench to leave. In situations where a spouse is left after their partner dies, leaving a home to start life again as a single independent person is especially difficult, when they have lived all their life as a couple.

An attic full of photos and memorabilia, a garage packed with tools and hobby equipment, perhaps even a car that the remaining partner can’t drive; these physical and emotional obstacles can all add an extra mental burden to what is already almost certainly a draining and difficult time.

Making the move – with our help

However, the benefits of moving on, in every way someone can move on, can far outweigh these difficulties. Finding a new sense of freedom, being closer to family and loved ones, meeting new friends, discovering new hobbies and interests, and the relief of a secure financial future, can all make moving home after a bereavement a new start, in every sense of the word.

It takes careful guidance and assistance from an estate agent who really understands a seller’s motivations, to help someone through this process.  The sale of the house itself is only the tip of the iceberg; the real work comes in the separation process, and an estate agent who is supportive and sensitive will not only help make this as smooth a transition as possible, they will also help in the more practical aspects of the move too. At AshdownJones, we have some truly fantastic supplier contacts to help our clients with their home organisation, de-cluttering, storage, packing and moving – and knowing this can be reassuring to someone who is in the throes of the sometimes stressful journey of moving on.

We really aim to be that extra support to our clients, and it’s a service that our sellers appreciate deeply, especially if they don’t have close family or friends who could help them.

Deciding whether or not to move home can be as exciting as it is daunting. Making new plans, the promise of new friends and exploring new places, all combine to make moving home potentially a really special and even empowering experience.

Research from the US indicates that homeowners take on average around 14 months to progress from the first thoughts of moving home, right through to actually putting their property on the market to sell. Moving home is a decision few people take lightly – it’s a big step, one to be considered, weighed up and discussed with loved ones and friends, over weeks, months and even years. Here’s a story of a lovely couple who needed our help recently:

Time to move on

Brian and Carol had lived in their beautiful Troutbeck home for 27 years. Their three children had all been raised there, surrounded by friends and woodland, and now had families of their own, and were scattered all over the country.

Brian and Carol felt they were now rattling around in their five bedroomed home, but with 27 years of possessions and memories packed into every room, the prospect of packing it all up and moving home was overwhelming them both. Even the decision itself was emotionally draining. The couple knew that needed to make the move at some point in the not-too-distant future, and spurred on by their children, they sought a market appraisal from AshdownJones. Phil and Sam spent a couple of hours with them at the beginning of June one year, looking around their home and discussing with them timing and strategy. At the end of our visit, Brian and Carol promised to give the prospect of selling their careful consideration, but the months passed; summer turned to autumn, and with Christmas just around the corner, thoughts of moving were put aside.

The following spring, Brian and Carol again asked us to visit and advise them on their current appraisal, and we duly obliged, and re-appraised the value of their home. Again, procrastination by the couple saw the months pass by with Brian and Carol unwilling to take any steps towards their downsizing move.

A few months later, Brian had a stroke. Not a serious one, but enough to confine him the downstairs rooms of the house. As he now found the stairs a challenge, they had to have a shower installed downstairs, and gradually, the upstairs of the house became completely redundant.

Something had to change.

For the third time, they asked us to value their house and finally put their house on the market. The couple had now lived in their home for thirty years. We sold it quickly, and with their children’s help, they were finally able to move to a small bungalow in Kendal, near their grandchildren and within closer reach of health centres, shops and other amenities.  Because their financial commitments are so much lower, they are able to enjoy the peace of mind their situation now brings them.

“I only wish we’d done this sooner,” says Carol. “It would have been so much easier to manage a move when Brian was in full health. I tell my friends who are still living in their family homes to move and enjoy their extra time and money, before it’s too late.”

A listening ear

Whilst we estate agents are often very patient, and can wait years for our clients to decide to move home – or not – sharing your plans and motivations with your estate agent early means they can help you make the right decision for you when it matters most.

If you’d like to have a chat about your moving plans, in complete confidence, we’re here to listen. Just call us on on 015394 88811 or drop Phil a line at phil@ashdownjones.co.uk

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